Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Planning & Misunderstandings

First of all, yesterday I posted a clip of the song that's been stuck in my head, "Ain't No Sunshine." Apparently a lot of you thought I was having a rough time or depressed. Wrong. I promise I'm very happy and doing well. I posted the song because it's been stuck in my head and yes I do miss the boy but we're doing FABULOUS. 

Now, with that being said, I am a planner. I like to have dates laid out, things organized and a general overall plan for activities, trips, time frames etc. The boy...not so much. I thought it was really cute though that he humored me last night when we were talking about my next trip to see him. We think we've finally figured out the dates. With his work and mine it's crazy hard to schedule things...definitely with the upcoming holidays! 

PS: This part is a rant, so if you want to avoid it stop reading now. 

Hi blog stalker, yes...I'm talking to you. Why must you continue to come on my page and read about my life? We're not friends. I'm not in your life, why must you continue to want to know about mine? I mean really...you think that I'm nothing but a liar so why are you interested in what I have to say? Hope you've enjoyed reading about my life recently because it's been FABULOUS. 

32 comments:

Laura and Ryan said...

Just got back and catching up on your blog! I'm so happy you and your guy are doing great. I totally got idea behind the song :)

Heather said...

I am a planner too!! Hopefully your dates will click and everything will work out to see each other soon, I hope so!

Cookie Crums said...

I know what it's like to try to plan around crazy schedules...... the sad part about us is that WE LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE!! :) Hence, the romantic hot dog dinner. LOL! :)

Mr. and Mrs. Top Gun said...

Yeah for you and sweets doing sooo well :) Love that!! My Mr. Top Gun has left for the big D, and I feel like poop :( Oh well, I go home in a few weeks!!
Blog stalkers... yeah, I have a little problem with a LIFE stalker *so e-mail me if ya want to hear the story*

The best part? Mr. Top Gun sings that song to me before he leaves each and every time, and he has the deep voice to do it in too *wink, wink* Love it!!

Jessica Lynn said...

I used to think that I was a carefree-go-with-the-flow type of girl, but I'm not, and now I'm trying to learn how to not act as though I am.

MG said...

Glad to hear that everything is going fabulously!

Oh and as for the stalker, I have the same exact problem! I literally want to cut and paste what you wrote on your blog for two girls in my past! It never ceases to amaze me how people who claim they want nothing to do with your life, and the ones who are most interested in it!

Jon and Steph said...

I'm a HUGE planner too. You're not alone. and I think most guys aren't, so it's good that yours is already planning your next trip! :)

BakerGirl said...

I'm way more of a planner than J which is making this last year of medical school miserable! He's just like laid back and all I'll get in where I get in and I'm like making files on each hospital he's interviewing with!!

AHHHHH! :-)

That sucks about the blog stalker, can you block it or something?

~KS said...

I can't even believe you have a blog stalker... yikes!!

And so glad you're making plans for your next trip... wish me and my far away boy were doing that!

Becky said...

Ya for things going well! I am so glad! Finally, things are looking up!! ;) I am like you and love to plan things, so I know how you feel!! Boo for the blog stalker! Maybe they are just jealous!

Steph said...

Glad is all is going well and hope you get to see your man friend soon.

Blog stalker... go away. Do you not have anything better to do?

MrsB said...

i admit. i'm a blog stalker. i hope you dont mind me though. ♥ i like to think i'm fun and i occasionally comment, which i'm sure you enjoy. heehee.

Allison said...

I'm glad things are smoothing out with the Mr.

Stalkers are no fun. All I'm gonna say.

If you come back we can hang out again if you're not to busy! I'm going to email you, too.

jenn said...

i'm glad you and the mr. are doing good :o)

I'M A HUGE PLANNER -- so, i understand!!

Dollface said...

who is this blog stalker!!! they need to back up, hahaha xxoo

The Rest is Still Unwritten said...

You have a stalker!? Crazy! Hope they got the message! haha! what a loser.

Hope the schedule works out for y'all!

AmberDenae said...

Yay for everything going well in your life! :) I'm also an avid planner when it comes to events, holidays etc. This whole moving stuff is really throwing me for a loop but this too shall pass.

Oh to the blog stalkers. Quite irritating, aren't they? Rant all you want my dear. This is, in fact YOUR blog! ;)

Happy Wednesday!

Annie said...

a stalker!? hope the creeper leaves you alone!!

glad to hear you are happy hun!! i hope that you and your man can figure out a perfect time for a visit :)

JG said...

I plan certain things but not much. I like playing it by ear :)

Carol said...

I am a total planner too! And I am your #199 follower, almost to 200!

Katie said...

Glad the song was meant to be happy not sad! I hope the schedules work out and you can see him soon :)

corkyshell said...

Glad things are going fabulous :) :) And I am definitely a planner too, men are definitely NOT, so you are not alone!

Casey (@ Ever-Changing Life) said...

I thought you went private? No?

The good news is, she cares about you enough to stalk you. Obviously you left quite an impression!

Sunshinemeg said...

I am such a planner myself. Glad things with the boys are great. Enjoy your week.

Kris said...

Shoo stalker!!!

Ashley said...

Wowza.
I'm a big planner like that too and it kind of bothers Nate.
Just in case I'm retarded, is this the same guy that was in Texas?

Jessica said...

I'm so happy to hear that you and the boy are doing well! And, I can totally relate to you... I'm so neurotic about my planning, it drives the husband insane sometimes. Whoops! I hope you're plans to see him work out without any issues! :)

Abbie said...

I think being a planner is definitely a girl thing! My husband likes to fly by the seat of his pants and it drives me nuts!

Other than the blog stalker, I'm glad things in your life are going so well for you!

Amanda said...

Is this Texas Pete (that's what I'm calling him :) ) I never used to be a planner, but Kelsey is so I've adapted and now have gone the opposite direction and get FREAKED OUT if things aren't planned...I don't do anything halfway I guess :) Glad things are working out!

Amber @ A Little Pink in the Cornfields said...

Good! I'm glad everything is okay! :)

JenellyBean said...

I'm a super planner like you too!

Something about seeing my daily planner filled with events sends adrenaline through my veins.


I thought you went private... did that change?
If you are still private, how do you get your blog posts to update on your readers blogroll? Mine doesn't update.

The Queen of Clearance. said...

Weird. Well, Im glad you are happy, and I hope that you have a wonderful trip when you do get to go see him!