Monday, August 24, 2009

3 Strikes.

I believe in 2nd chances. I do not believe in 3rd chances. Whatever caused the 2nd chance shouldn't happen another time in which to create a 3rd chance. It's like baseball, you get three chances to hit the ball and you're out. Just in my world if you strike out the 2nd time, there's no third. 
I have this theory about the male species and this is in no connection to guys in my daily life. 

Guys like to treat girls as dolls. They take them off the shelf and play with them. Once they get bored with them (even though they may love them), they place them back on the shelf. Sometimes they get another doll, sometimes they just don't play at all. Either way they throw the doll to the side and forget about it. 
Another boy will come along and pick the same doll up off the shelf. Big no! The original guy will instantly become drawn back to that doll. No one else can play with it. He must have it! Even though he may not want to play with it, he doesn't want the other boy to enjoy it. 

Just a thought....do you agree?

23 comments:

The Queen of Clearance said...

I totally agree. Ive hardly seen an guy get a 3rd chance that deserved it! most dont even deserve the second change to be honest! lol. have a great week!

hmb said...

This is hysterical! I love it!

In This Wonderful Life said...

Haha! Definitely well said! I do agree that some guys are like this...not all..but for sure some! I hope and wish that would never treat you this way!

Anonymous said...

This is very true! I agree, not all guys are like this, but quite a few are.

Anonymous said...

Well said sister! 3 times? YOUR OUT!

"Cookie" said...

Again....playing catch up! I've gotten slack lately.

True....a lot of guys want what another one has.

And you made fun of me about joining Twitter!! Ha ha ha ha ha. Love it!! :)

I so want to take a guess about the big news and probably might have a shot at it. Looking forward to what you have to say.

Steph said...

I agree. Men are very simply creatures.

Unknown said...

I absolutly agree! I have experienced this myself in fact... Its annoying and just pisses you off!

Laura said...

I agree!!!

Carrie said...

Definitely agreed.

Becky said...

I concur! They don't get paste three strikes in baseball, they should be used to it!

SS said...

Total agreement, 2nd chance is possible but if you blow that one you're out.

OR like little kids with toys in general! Didn't Beyonce just write a song about this. hmmmmm....

I'll probably get rocks thrown at me for saying this, but I've seen women act the exact same way.

JG said...

I think some guys act that way, sure, and so do some women. Selfish people are all the same.

Bridget said...

Agree totally!

Anonymous said...

TOTALLY. They want what they cant have. Every. Single. Time.

Katie said...

AMEN SISTER!!! I def. agree!

Annie said...

i have to agree, for sure!!
3 strikes and your outta there....

Troy and Rachel said...

I actually don't fully agree. I agree that is happens a lot like that, but I think that doll (girl) should be stronger and not let guys treat her like that. Guys can only treat women like dolls if they let them.

Ashley said...

I think I have been out of the dating game for too long!!

BSS said...

this post reminded me a lot of the movie Mean Girls, where they weren't allowed to date each other's exes... I think some men and women are like this, and I think it's not fair to mess with people like that. I just don't think it's right to mess with someone's mind in that way....

Homemade Heaven said...

This sounds exactly like the movie "Made of Honour"

Cassandra said...

I couldn't agree more!

Unknown said...

It is the same thing when it pertains to my children and their toys LOL! So basically men are small chidren with no boundries or tact!